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Date: Thu, 9 Sep 2010 06:29:35 -0700 (PDT)
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COLUMN: REALITY CHECK

A Friend In Need ...
 by Stan Mitchell

"A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for
adversity" (Proverbs 17:17, ESV).

A cynical friend used to say, "A friend in need ... is
a pest!" His other saying was: "Where there's a will,
there's a lawyer." Some things you can count on, I
suppose, and others you cannot.

Of course he had reversed the meaning of the well-known
proverb based on the verse above, "A friend in need is
a friend indeed." My acerbic friend was referring to an
acquaintance who always turned up when he needed
something, but hardly ever at other times.

In contrast the proverb is declaring that when someone
is your friend in adversity, when you face troubled
times and he is "there for you," then that is a real
friend. That is a friend who "loves at all times,"
including the hard times.

Some are fair weather friends, and others are friends
you can count on in a storm. They are blizzard
brethren, friends in feast and famine, the kind you
really want to keep.

The vital question to ask, however, is not: "What kind
of friends do you have?" but, "What kind of friend are
you?" 

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COLUMN: ENCOURAGING WORD

So What!
 by Paula Harrington

I was sitting beside three sweet little friends one
Wednesday night as the congregation sang Jesus Loves
Me. I loved hearing their voices as they went about the
familiar verses.

However, the youngest, had his heart into it. He belted
out the chorus with much enthusiasm.

As he got to the end, he sang boldly, "Yes, Jesus loves
me. The Bible tells me so." He held out the last word
until everyone else was finished singing and then
turned around and proclaimed. "So what!"

Isn't that the way we are sometimes? We know Jesus
loves us. We're well aware that the Bible tells us how
to live, yet our actions speak differently.

We check in with Jesus on Sundays, warm a pew, and
punch the Christian time-card. But once we leave, we
casually fade back into the world.

We forward malicious, gossip-filled e-mails about our
President telling ourselves that if we don't agree with
him then we have the right to slander him (Hebrews
13:17).

We flirt more with the world than we do our spouse (I
John 2:15).

We let that pesky "live peacefully with all men" verse
hinge on the color of one's skin, the money in their
bank account, or the congregation they attend (Hebrews
12:14).

The Bible shows us the way to a greater life, a loving
father, and a Heavenly future but too many times we
live as though God isn't that important. Like others
who have gone before us, we proclaim Jesus with our
lips but our hearts are far from him (Matthew 15:8).

Friends, sometimes we're like that cute little boy who
sang, "The Bible tells me so. So what."

Spend some time with your nearest Bible. Life is about
God, not us. Our focus needs to be on the cross. Live
right. Stand out. Love others. Make a difference.

You have the opportunity to change the world. The Bible
tells me so.

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